I honestly feel really awkward dabbling into this terrain….but a man has gotta do what a man has gotta do…*doublesigh.
I am not going to come and claim I was disgustingly obese and obscene to look at all the time i was fat. On the contrary even at my largest I still looked quite "ok"(maybe as a function of good skin inherited from my mum and probably an ‘easy on the eyes’ face) but those didn’t make me feel nice. I was constantly out of breathe, asthma attacks waaaay more frequent, self inflicted ulcer bouts, my self esteem was at rock bottom and had suddenly become camera shy! me ke???I hated what I had become.
From my child hood I had always been the cute little chubby angel with chuberic cheeks and pink lips. The first of 5 kids, I was easily the cute example of what a first born should look like to encourage the passion to have more kids ;D, though clearly as time went on it was obvious I also took all the “big genes”. As I entered high school it obviously was more of a curse than a blessing. The ‘happening’ girls were all slim, some stick thin but everyone believed that was beautiful so we were all sucked into that fad….really what’s a 14 year old to do* shrugging. Now I do know better and I am definitely instilling that into my children!
I felt unattractive and basically plain though a lot of people thought otherwise….it’s all about self confidence people, which I lacked at that point in my life even though I appeared to be full of it *yinmu…so I really just sailed through high school and didn’t really allow it pass through me.
That was me at the farthest right @ sz16 + in uni year 1......see how beautiful and trim my friends looked. All looking age appropriate!!
Fast forward to university and in a huge summary I was the fat fine girl!!! NOTE; Fat comes first!!Like seriously! Hence i hid under tee shirts and baggy jeans and added my touch of head bands initially so i could kuku pass off as a tomboy!! It worked!!! I eventually pondered and pondered on what I could really do to combat this weight. And of course at only 18/19 (age of awareness) I really shouldn’t be wearing a UK size 16 and weigh 82kg. So I did a lot of research and based on that reduced portions and incorporated daily exercises’……I started sporting a small 14 in good time and started feeling better. By my final year I was a 12 up and 14 down….glory!!
By middle law school I had pushed it further to UK size 10 up and small 14 down (hips don’t lie!!!) and I remember I weighed 68kg on my wedding day!!! Yaaaaay me!
But then kids started coming almost immediately. And by the time my 1st bundle came
I climbed on the scale and was a shocking but expected 90kg!!!! I had craved all sorts of things and constantly ate for 3 sef and not 2 (which in itself is a myth) and honeyboo always tried to make me happy….:D! Oh my goodness! I was crushed and when the breastfeeding kicked in fully I added a few more kgs. This i will attribute to my loving mother-in-law(in a good way o) . She would constantly wait on me hand and foot and aside 3 regular full meals i had to drown in different variants of pap cos of the baby. and of cos, milk and sugar, sometimes milo and horlicks sef go join the mix :D!!I had to do something ASAP. So I resorted to starving and would eat maybe once in 2 days….and water. And with even all that ‘suffering I only lost about 3.5 kg and ended up being admitted for chronic ulcer!! It was a harrowing experience o. My lil angel had to be brought to me to get some milk everyday for 5 days.:(
Had been back from the hospital from the ulcer showdown a few months… ….about 86kg/sz 16 going on 18
Here maybe about 90 something kg: sz18 going on 20….about 2 months preggy for my son
So I took in for my 2nd lil bundle at 87kg, was a bit more conscious but still hit 99kg at his birth and added more as the months wore on. I eventually needed to start a job and my medicals revealed a whooping 104kg and after a hard and long day at the shops to buy some work clothes, I got home depressed, I could only fit into size 18 shirts ( though I had to take in the waist a little) and a size 20/22 under!! The horror! I got home and fought my husband…..i had to vent mbok! Said he obviously didn’t love me if he would watch me get soo fat and didn’t say anything. He held me apologizing that he didn’t want me to feel bad and also go about the weight loss the wrong way…..made plenty sense.
So in a nutshell I found out I should eat often and it was what I ate that mattered and the quantity of course. So armed with that information and a determination to be healthy I started working on it and slowly and surely by the time I took in for my 3rd bundle I was 82kg from 104kg and UK 12 up 14 down. When I had her I weighed 91kg and when she was about 11 months I reckoned it was time to get rid of the baby weight at 94kg.
Today (24/4/2013) I am size Uk10 up and big 12 down and weigh 74kg so I am still work in progress as to be in my healthy BMI range I need to weigh below 72kg. Though in a corner of my heart that BMI ish na yinmu.....i use it more like a guide than "cast in stone". But in truth I’m more size conscious and belly inches conscious than what the scale says and I believe in a lifestyle change because that brings about sustainability and since YOLO, i would still want to LIVE.
At my SILs wedding easter weekend of this our good and blessed year 2013
A lot of people are beginning to face the truth behind weight loss and how it really works and honestly I just want everyone especially mums and mums to be to find inspiration through healthy perspectives and not crash diets or weight loss gimmicks and also not what the media portrays to be healthy. We are all built differently so it’s about being our very own best and not look like a Nicki Minaj or nowwanna go overboard and remove all the curves God has blessed us with!!! Its about balance huns! We are not in competition with anyone but ourselves!
A lot of people are beginning to face the truth behind weight loss and how it really works and honestly I just want everyone especially mums and mums to be to find inspiration through healthy perspectives and not crash diets or weight loss gimmicks and also not what the media portrays to be healthy. We are all built differently so it’s about being our very own best and not look like a Nicki Minaj or nowwanna go overboard and remove all the curves God has blessed us with!!! Its about balance huns! We are not in competition with anyone but ourselves!
People don’t be oppressed by your problems or challenges……be led by your dreams.
And errrrrrrm before I sign out lemme confess mbok… my ores of life!…this was why I was MIA for a while…I would never wanna go anywhere and had to miss all your events!!! From weddings to birthdays to baby dedications!I would think up all the excuses I could think of from babysitting to headache to asthma attack just so that I can be left in peace and stay at home!!! Boohoohoo *mewailingseriously! But will more than make up for it now…..forgive me plix! *grouphug
So drawing from this innate passion to help people….i have now turned a passion and hobby into a structure to help people most especially my heart beats for women and mums like me to find that confidence back hence the birth of F.i.t.T.r.i.x......where wellness meets fabulosity. :*
Wow Babe!!!!! Look at that transformation!! You are definately an inspiration to our generation o!! Keep up the good works!! Please what is Fittrix all about?
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣.a lot.... always want to remain an inspiration! F•i•t•T•r•i•x is my weight management company that helps people achieve their goals by creating a lifestyle...we open officially on the 1st of May 2013
DeleteWell done Ebun! Very inspiring journey....keep up the great work. I believe your experience through FitTrix will bless a lot of women and help them stay fit and healthy. I wish you all of God's very best!!
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ sooo much bimbo...and Amen!!! Like told you b4 u were one of those that planted that "seed"....God bless u
DeleteGo girl!!!!Im def coming in for consultation I need Help!!!
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ ....we are waiting #biggrin
DeleteYay,Go Beauty!!! *wink* I shall be consulting you,every now and then! Great start!!!!
ReplyDeleteTeeheehee @ beauty! E don tey una don call me that my nickname; plix no run ooo:P. ⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ memeh
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ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ hun.....amin o!
DeleteWell done Dee!!! This is inspiring to say the least. I just need to set my mind to it. Thanks a lot for this!
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ Nk....u very welcome
DeleteBabe! So proud of you. Thanks for sharing your truly inspiring story. Can easily relate to this as a struggling mother of 3 myself (as per this weight thingy).Wow! These your pix tell it all. Slow and steady wins...looking fwd to reading your next write up. Keep up the good work Ore!!
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ so much hun....u can relate shey!yesso moderation and consistency is key. Working on the next one already :D...
DeleteWhao, sis, this is great and very inspiring. One great thing i love love love about you is that you are so determined, and we all need that when we set goals we really want to achieve. Ebun has got a barn-ful of that, lol. i definately need some of these trix for fitness o. You know, its fabulousity, it goes with the terrain. Loads of love dear and congrats. Emzy
ReplyDeleteMy sister my friend!!....⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ so much. Yes @ determination. But what tell people is the fuel for determination is "the reason". You need that to hold on too!
DeleteDamn!you are such a beauty to me either way! But uve done sooooo well! Please help us ooo, obesity is on the rise in this country, its getting alarming!
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahaa!!! Hokay o!! ⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ a lot! Its the advent of fast foods!! Shikenna!...portion sizes meant for 3 soaked in lard!! Eeeeuuuuw!
DeleteJuisco....⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ dearie...yesso we dey that dept...but can be the best of that dept...
ReplyDeletenot bad go with it
ReplyDeleteThank you
DeleteTruly inspiring. Well done! Well written too.got me laughing.keep it up.
ReplyDeleteThank you muchos.......i am glad you enjoyed the write up!
DeleteEbun!!!!! Thumbs up and plenty winks!Frances
ReplyDeleteFrancessca Hun......thanks a lot
DeleteEbun,
ReplyDeleteGood job babe am proud of you and truly commend you for sharing your story.I hope mine too will inspire people to be able to stay focused on their goals.
Thanks a lot D........I appreciate. Definitely Hun.......I plan to feature inspiring weight loss journeys here to further help people! Would be honored to feature urs.
DeleteHey sis its Lucy. SO proud of you gurl. You such a HUGE inspiration to the likes of us n I believe to tons of girls out there too. We will support you in Every way we can and May God guide you all the way IJN. Amen!
ReplyDeleteJuicy lucy.....thank you soo much hun
DeleteYour welcome hun. God bless you.
DeleteCongratulations dear. Truly inspired. You look fab.
ReplyDeleteThanx Wels!
DeleteI really find it hard 2 believe d transformation. It's awesome. Thumbs up 2 u. Do u deal only with women. My husband sure needs 2 shed a great deal of weight. Aw do we get u?
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot abimbola....In answering your question.....I want to help as many people as possible from women to kids to men. I even help pregnant women who want to be healthy and not go over the top and nursing mums. Though as I pointed out in the write up....my heart specially beats for mums and mums to be cos I've been there! In conclusion....we can both help your boo...You can send an email to f.i.t.t.r.i.xpassion@gmail.com and we can take it up from there.
DeleteThis is too on point! Kudos kudos! And you write so well too. I enjoyed every line in that write up. So do you have an office or?
ReplyDeleteThank you thank you...your too kind! My model is - we come to the client so that its convienient for you....so we really don't need n office for now :D.
DeleteMore power to you Deedeem!.. i will definitely be in touch.
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ hun.....we'll be expecting you :*
ReplyDeleteI'm sooo proud of you girl...... This Is the TRUE story . But I'm glad it took you to birth FITTRIX
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Aburo mi tho sure! Thanks Hun. And im a testimony to the fact that God takes you through situations so that ur testimony will be fat.
DeleteHi Ebun
ReplyDeleteGreat job, keep it up.
U look great by d way.
Kenny
Thank you hun
Deleteoops...dis is great! please am interested o. lets us knw when u ve launch on may 1st.
ReplyDeletei need to go to size 10 frm this ma size 16 #crying#
I'm glad u are interested, it shows you love your self......my bb pin is 331C0EED and my digits.....08032006454. Toodles
DeleteWow! Yours is truly an inspirational story! Many women have hit rock bottom, confidence-wise because of their weight. A lot have gone through so many things, taken so many drugs and supplements, harmed themselves in so many ways just to loss the extra fat.
ReplyDeleteI believe yours is a calling from above to reach out and touch lots of lives, and so i use this opportunity to introduce a project - WivesRoundTable - to you. It is an online forum as well as a radio talk show - with the sole objective of bringing married women together to share their stories, teach each other and support each other through the journey of marriage (much like what u have set out to do). The radio show airs on Inspiration FM every Thursday 8pm.
I hope to get in touch with you so we can talk more about how we can add value to each of our projects. Could you please send me your email, or telephone number or bb pin to info@wivesroundtable.net
Thanks
Thank you soo much! I do know that show, I listened in last Thursday where the topic was on kids and the way we dress them. I laughed so hard o! We can definitely talk. My nos is 08032006454 and my bb pin is 331C0EED. I would really wanna get women outta the emotional "dump"
DeleteThumbs up Dee.Great job. So so impressed.
ReplyDeleteBusola
⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ Busola....i hope you are inspired too :*
DeleteYour journey is definitely an inspiration. And your heart and mind are in the right place. Thanks for bringing this to us and giving us hope.
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ a lot Chichi...ur words are encouraging
DeleteWeldone girlfriend! I must come for consultation. Maybe if I hv people on my case urging me to loose weight I wld be able to do it and maintain the lifestyle. The Lord will continue to crown all you efforts with success.
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ hun....come oooo we dey wait!:D...that's the thing, more people than not need that 'support' to loose the weight and maintain it...that's where F•i•t•T•r•i•x comes in. Amin loruko Jesu!
DeleteWay to go Ebun! I hope a lot of women out there key into this and learn from you! Your self esteem is all you have wen all else fails!
ReplyDeleteKeep it up girl n if I ever need to loose weight, I know who to go to *wink* ahrdah*POW*
⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ ore....word on the self esteem comment!....yesso!
DeleteWelldone Dee! Am so impressed, dis ya story is so inspiring, wen I saw those pix, I tapped maself n said, babe u can do dis,so d lost hope came back! Dee am rite behind u...may God give u d strenght n wisdom 2reach out to women with xtra body fat, just get ready cos dey are waaay too many!! Lol!
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ hun.....hahahhahaa!! Chei u this babe! Amin o
DeleteDeedee! What wonderful work you have done for your self. You definitely need to do this for others. I'm proud of you and these pictures are amazing! Fittrix is the way to go.... This is Yinx btw
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ hun....that's my plan o my Gods Grace. Yes its the way ooo...
DeleteOhh! So long and inspiring a story. Cant ask for more. Ur determination 4 change as bought you this far. Bravo maami. The sky is ur starting point. Success ur end. Am glad above all u never limit ursef. Yes u' can, yes we can and now is the time. I pray GOD to help n direct u more sis. Ur pic alone is giving me sleepless night already. Goodbye to plenti food(laughing). Yes to flat tummy, yes to sexiness, yes to exercise, yes to fittrix. Dee..ebun march forward in May. Abj branch coming soon.. Na Hawtstuff be dis.
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ hawtilicious....Amen and Amen. Yes Yes Yes :D
DeleteNow Im inspired! Love the write-up! So how do we join the bandwagon?
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ hun....I'm really glad you are inspired o!...you can reach us on 08032006454
ReplyDeleteWeldone iya bukunmi on d journey so far, its such an inspiring story. You r truly a living testimony, waiting to join d train
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ a whole lot!!
DeleteUltra-inspiring! Weldone girl... The "eat for two" while preggy that everyone keeps chanting is such a myth o... I was lucky to get the expo early in my first pregnancy, but there's so much expo that is needed to combat all the faboos out there. I doff my hat to you Ebun, and may the good Lord strengthen you and reward you as you fundamentally impact people's lives.
ReplyDeleteMy second child is now 3mos old, and I am about 6kg from my pre-pregnancy weight and 9kg away from my desired weight... With an ultra-active toddler, the discipline is a lot harder to maintain, and I'll definitely reaching out to you for tips and trix :-).
Thanks again Ebun, and more "olive oil to your elbows" :-D.
Thank you muchos Bash!!!....i really wish i was given that expo earlier oo!! Though i wouldn't have a story to inspire women :D
ReplyDeleteYour doing very well...keep it up...And i do feel you on 'eating' right with kids n all. Whenever you are ready hun our arms are wide open!!
Congrats dear nd all the best. A rather motivating nd inspiring read. Ciao
ReplyDelete⌣»̶·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̈̊Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣x✽̤̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌«̶⌣ hun
DeleteWhat more can i say? I have no doubts you will pull this through Lovy! Very proud of you and must say how much of an inspiration you are!!! The bit on competing with oneself is so much on point...not being like somebody else but the best of YOU..YOU..YOU! Well done aburo mi...Greater heights ahead.
ReplyDeleteThank you big sis....i really appreciate the confidence in me.
DeleteHey Cuz... I'm very proud of you. I remembered when I started my weight loss journey 4 yrs ago and within couple months I was down. Girl I was so happy and I've kept the weight off. U are so right about diet, IT DOES NOT WORK. A person as to keep active, exercise and eat healthy. When I visit Naija which will be sometime later this year, we are def going to workout together.
ReplyDeleteI love you and I'm very proud of you. Keep doing what you are doing.
My cuz of life!!!Thanx sooooo much, Thats what i am trying to explain to people. We need to purge our minds and souls off diets.....Its a fixation that will cost us too many things. Yesso i cant wait hun...enuff fun things to do whilst burning calories at it!
DeleteBabe!! You look...............HOT. You made it! Proud of you! Ifeoma.....u know now? I go hala u soon.
Deleteu look really good whats ur secret.im interested
ReplyDeleteMind is big belle will like to work on it through your help
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