RESPECT!!!!....but we need to earn it HUNS!!

Hi people!!!

I trust we all had an awesome week! By awesome i mean the GRACE to weather the crazy traffic,  annoying road marshals, overbearing bosses, nosy friends, some demanding family members and still eat healthy! :D. On that note i had an awesome week + my toddler's fever and crankiness but what even made mine more awesome is the results my F.i.t.T.r.i.x clients are getting!!.....Pure Fulfilment!!I LOVE MY JOB!! I HAVE FOUND MY MINISTRY!

Meanwhile my sister's  momimo went very very well, she was stunning!!! I have begggged her to allow me put her picture up! Love you hun!!

The cake was blah though!!OMG! It was the worst ever in look and presentation and taste...I had to be innovative( thank God for my MTN experience where innovation is the watch word) and tie a bow with chiffon around the excuse!! I thought we would feel better when we cut it up......viola!! pink velvet and choco milo!! Where did all the moist go!! I almost beat myself up for placing that order in the first place since i kuku tell people to avoid eating such. But its always BETTER to look at the silver lining in every grey cloud....at least no one was keen on eating it!! yaaaaaaay!

Today i want to give us all a break from food!...Lets talk about another favourite topic of mine.....FASHION!! I loooove dressing up and shoes are absolutely my weakest point! My best combo -  figure fitted but covered ensemble in fab fab shoes and nude make up but with some blush, sunglasses and my natural hair in all its glory:D. But errrrrrrrrrm i will not be talking about me.

My eyes kept getting assaulted the whole week.Everywhere i went i kept seeing fashion No Nos, from peaking tummy's to bulging ones in very tight tops (and they were not pregnant) to weird cleavages and really dark eye brows!! I honestly do not understand why a "fleshy" lady with a huge mid riff will indulge in Lycra whether as a top or pants? OR would wear see through chiffon top or dresses? Like seriously?The flab ain't appealing...trust me!

                                                     

When you start to love your body, then you will want to treat it right and dress it right. Fine, we are at that point we want to start gearing up for a new fab and trim body.....but whilst we are still in this body, lets treat it right and not make it the laughing stock of the town. I know when a lot of us look in the mirror, we see what we want to see.....the exotic Peruvian hair falling over your shoulders and the perfect MAC finish and the rouge lips that has given us the perfect pout and that exquisite LV tote! We think that's about all of it! Una lie pass Nwosu! All that fabulosity doesn't cover the bulging tummies or cellulite bumps showing through those Lycra pants or the christian mother arms!!

Bottom line is dress according to your body type to bring out your best assets......at least till you can get away with wearing almost anything.

•  If you have a huge tummy please wear styles that cover them up nice and do not attempt to tuck your shirts in....plix!
•  If you have huge laps....nice fitted pencil skirts coming at a little bit below the knees would make you look trimmer.
• If you have huge arms, ditch the baby cap sleeves and sleeveless tops! Wear 3/4 sleeves more.
• If you are top heavy, droop necks and Lycra are a no no.
• If you are on the round-all-generous-big side one bold dark colour is best and you can accentuate with a touch of bright jazzy colour. Wear clothes that point to your good sides and not scream...I AM FAT!

I am getting sick of the male folk making fun of us when we saunter by.....we are a  stronger and more beautiful specie, so they should marvel and be in awe of God's awesomeness and not make a mockery of us!! At the bank on Tuesday i watched a fellow woman being reduced to nothing all because of her wrong choice in baffs! She was like a Uk 16 but had a really big tummy and decided to wear a dress at least 2 dresses smaller and it was Lycra!!! whyyyyyyy? She looked stuffed to be honest and though she had on a nice weave and her nails and make up on point...she looked like she was trying too hard! So some bored dudes waiting to get a cheque cleared decided to use her to pass the time!! Oh the horror!! Vile things came out of their mouths and i couldn't take it anymore as i was sooo sure she could hear them. On my way out (of course waited to tell them my mind on my way out- wisdom!!!) i told them both that it shows they don't have respect for women to run her down like that....and we would see their hot wives soon in a few years after 2 kids!!ptcheeeeuuuuww!   GIRL POWER!

Hello!!! a belt in this case is worn to show off a waist and not point to the fact that your tummy is huge!! She would have looked sharper and trimmer in a free tank top ,a boy friend jacket on it and a pair of fitted jeans as she has relatively slim limbs for her size.

Me and my girl JODIE( i loove her and her music....pure talent) at the WOWE @ Eko hotel last week. Though i have lost tons of weight but my hips have refused to lie completely so i still need to dress it aptly!!

Ladies feeling and looking great starts both from the inside and the outside......Lets learn to feed our bodies right (good food), dress aptly and feed our souls too. There's nothing more ridiculous than a woman who feels she is sexy but is inappropriately clad and is bouncing all over the place instead of just sitting down and sipping on mineral water!!!!!hian

 

 

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